Recently, I hosted a Korean dinner party for our American friends at home- some of whom have never tasted Korean food before. So it was a bit of a challenge to come up with a menu that could show the authentic taste of Korean food but at the same time would not be too much of a shock to their taste buds. Since the party was on a Friday, I did not have my husband to help me during the day. So not only did I have to prepare the house (clean, decorate, set the table, etc), I also had to do most of the dinner preparations all by myself.. Hmm… so I knew I could do some of the work in advance during the week, but I still wanted to make sure the menu was something I can handle. So-what is universally yummy but also not too time consuming to prepare?? That was the question..
But first a little bit about appetizers. Since I knew I was going to be busy cooking dinner (and let’s face it, appetizers are really not native Korean food), I asked my friends to bring some appetizers to share. In keeping with the Korean/Asian food theme, a friend made this amazingly yummy Rice Stuffed Squid. In Korean it’s called 오징어순대 (Oh-jing-uh Soondae) which means squid sausage. It was really touching that he took the time to search for the recipe and make it himself. It was really awesome.
Besides the squid dish, there were egg rolls and really great home made lettuce wraps with pork stuffing that were also amazing. Thank you, Friends!
So here is my Korean dinner party menu that is quite authentic but easy and simple to prepare. Having had the party, I can now say with confidence that this is indeed a good menu for guests who are not very adventurous eaters (as some of my friends certainly are not). Some friends enjoyed it so much that they asked me where they could get the ingredients and how they could recreate this dinner on their own. That was definitely the best compliment anyone can receive.
Korean Party Menu for 12 people
- Korean BBQ Beef Ribs (갈비구이 Kalbi Gui)–
LA Kalbi without bones I bought and marinated approx 6 lbs of beef ribs cut “LA Style” (thinly sliced across the bone) using my Bulgogi marinade recipe. After marinating them overnight in the refrigerator, my husband grilled them outside on wood charcoals (100% wood charcoals is best) until each side was browned. Kalbi is quite tender but has lots of fat so grill the Kalbi after the guests arrive and keep the Kalbi warm until it is time to serve.
I love how this kind of cut rib produces really tender pieces but one thing I dislike is how sometimes the bone chips of the ribs end up on the meat making the texture feel gritty. Even though I wash each piece individually in water first, it is almost impossible to avoid the bone chips. So for my non-Korean guests, I decided to take the meat off the bone. This way, there is no bone to cut around and also eliminates any possibility of having bone chips in the marinade.
- Zucchini Fritters (호박전 Hobak Jeon) – sliced two good size Korean Zucchinis for the Hobak Jeon. Make it in advance and keep it warm in the warming drawer (moist) or cover it in tin foil and keep it warm in the oven at 200 F or so.
- Fried Vegetable Dumplings (야채 군만두 Yachae Mandoo) – pan fried one whole bag of frozen Pulmuone Vegetable Dumplings in some vegetable oil. Kept these warm in the oven with the hobak jeon.
- Germinated White Rice – optionally make brown rice or fried rice instead of plain white rice. But plain rice is easier to prepare than fried rice and is also better for your diet.
- Salad with miso dressing– used a ready made miso dressing on some greens and some sweet corn (yes, I know..this is Japanese but it was just in case some guests didn’t like the Ssam). The Red Shell brand Japanese Miso Dressing is my all-time favorite Asian dressing (goes well with any Asian food) but I always feel it is a bit too thick and heavy. So I usually lighten it up by adding some fresh squeezed lemon juice – approx 1 T of lemon juice to 1/4 C of dressing. Try it, it really makes a huge difference.
My favorite Asian dressing – Japanese Miso - Ssam (Lettuce Wraps) – served assorted lettuce greens, perilla leaves and ssukat from my garden. Everyone loved that they were home grown.
- Ssam Jang (Spicy Soy Bean Sauce for Lettuce Wraps)- check my previous posting for Ssam Jang recipe. You can also buy Pulmuone brand Ssamjang in case you don’t want to make it yourself.
- Kimchi – sliced and served whole cabbage Kimchi which is the most traditional type of Kimchi . My ultimate favorite brand of Kimchi is Jongkajip(종가집). It is actually imported directly from Korea. It’s expensive but I wanted to offer the best tasting Kimchi I could find. (For making Kimchi Jjigae, Kimchi fried rice or any recipe that requires larger amount of Kimchi, I usually buy a jar of Kimchi made locally because the local brands are cheaper and because after Kimchi is cooked most brands and types taste pretty good).
**If I had extra time, I would have loved to add a seafood dish to my Korean party menu- either Shrimp or Fish fillet Jeon, or grilled salmon of some kind.
**Other dishes that go well with Kalbi are moo saeng che (radish salad), potato salad (both Korean style and American style work well) and jangahjii (korean pickles). Basically foods that are sweet and sour or creamy.
Serving the food
Table Plating– As you see in the picture below, I decided to plate the Ssam, Hobak Jeon, Mandoo (dumplings) and sauces already on the table – Korean style. For a table of 12 people, I prepared 3 sets of banchan with their condiments, so that each guest could reach them easily during the meal. Normally, I would have also placed Kimchi alongside each set here but because I thought some of my friends may find the smell a little offensive, I thought I would just pass the Kimchi around instead. For utensils, I gave everyone steak knives so they could easily cut the meat.
Individual serving– For individual plates, I served the rice and Kalbi and let the guests actually serve the rest of the banchan (side dish) themselves from the table. The picture below is a sample of how a plate would look when all the food was served.
Doesn’t it look fabulous?! My friends really seemed to enjoy the food – especially the Kalbi of course. (About this picture – There was this one piece of Kalbi that escaped me and had the bones still in them.. I purposefully included it here so you could also see how it looks with the bone in.)
Centerpiece– Instead of buying flowers, I cut some lavender and lantana blooms from my garden. They looked beautiful but the arrangement was too tall.. next time I am going to try to make a proper centerpiece that is lower in height.
Well, I would say the dinner party was a total success!!
Oh! I forgot to mention the dessert.. I originally wanted to make some traditional Korean dessert like Yakwa ( I could have made this a day before) but didn’t get to… kind of disappointing.. But a friend brought cheese cake. So we had them with some berries!
We don’t throw dinner parties except for family occasions. I like to keep certain ingredients on hand because they can be used to enhance a number of different dishes. Red Shell Japanese Miso Dressing is my favorite, too. There are a number of similar sesame dressings available here, it’s always good to keep a bottle on hand for any eventuality, I love Ssamjang and make a small bowl of it every week, just in case. My shopping list includes Korean Soy Sauce, which I feel has a better depth of flavor and aroma than local Japanese soy. I try not to run out of gochujang. The sauce we use for cold tofu, soy, vinegar, gochujang, sesame seed, a little sugar and sesame oil, and green onions can turn several dishes into something special, So although we don’t do many dinner parties. We have the ingredients to make meals special should the need arise.
Wow – Michael you now have everything down pretty much!! I agree with everything that you said and I do the same. Always have ssamjang and miso dressing in the fridge. Korean Soup Soy Sauce (guk ganjang) certainly adds such a wonderful dimension of flavor. And my daughter said the same thing the other day – mom, it’s amazing how green onions can make a Korean dish taste so amazing! Yes, fresh green onions are a must in Korean food. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Hello! Thank you so much for your blog. I’m so excited about your recipes.
I’m planning on doing the marinated galbi and wondered if you have to double the bulgogi marinade for 2 lbs of galbi? Thanks in advance!!
Hi! Yes, you should basically double the marinade just so it will fully cover the galbi you have. You may want to reduce the amount of bulgogi marinade by maybe 10% for galbi if you want to be accurate and account for the bones which won’t be absorbing the marinade. So in your case, use 5T + 1 tsp soy sauce, 5 1/2tsp sugar? The other stuff you don’t have to be totally accurate since they won’t affect it too much. Also, you will want to use less sesame oil since galbi already has a lot of fat.And be sure to use kiwi (1/2 kiwi for 5 lbs) or some type of tenderizer since galbi can be pretty tough. Hope you have a great labor day weekend!! So glad you found me~ 😉 and thanks for asking!
Thanks so much for your quick reply! The ribs turned out 대박. Everyone loved them.I reduced the garlic a little bit but it didn’t affect it too much. The only thing was that it was a tick too tough for my liking and what I’m used to when my mum makes it. And I think it’s got to do with the thickness of the cut. K live in Germany and bought the meat from a german butcher who told me that he was cutting it as thinly as he could. He was the only one offering such cuts so of course I bought it. Maybe I’ll try putting in a little more kiwi and/or pear and hope for the best. I’ll def make this more. Thanks again for your amazing blog. I’m inspired to try out the recipes which is something I never thought I’d say as I’m one of those strange Koreans who don’t have to eat kimchi and rice daily to have a happy life!
Sooo happy to hear that the ribs turned out well!! Always so good to hear that. I know getting the ribs cut thinly is always a challenge outside of Korea and yes, if the meat is thicker when making Kalbi, you may also want to tenderize the meat by using a tenderizer (poking with fork will work too) in addition to using more kiwi.
You know.. I have to confess, I don’t eat kimchi and rice everyday..sshh.. don’t tell anyone. 🙂 But so thrilled to hear that my blog had inspired you.. I think that’s the best compliment ever. Thank you so much!!
Wow, everything looks absolutely delicious! Especially the squid stuffed with rice looks scrumptious.
I think my friend made the stuffed squid from a recipe in allrecipes.com – search for “squid stuffed with rice”. It was really really good.
I am so happy to have stumbled across this. I love your dinner menu. What kind of sauce would you recommend to go with the dumplings and pancake? Either a store bought brand you like or if you don’t mind sharing your recipe.
Thank you!
Great question! Sure, the same sauce would work great for both dumplings and pancake. Try a mix of 1 T soy sauce, 1 tsp vinegar(more or less to your liking), a dash of red pepper flakes and sesame seeds. You can also add 1/2 tsp of sugar to make it a little sweet. Add some chopped green onions for freshness if you want. Hope you like it!
A quick note about the squid appetizer that my friend brought to our Korean dinner party. He later told me that it was not actually Korean but he thought it was close enough. And I have to totally agree. I am pretty sure the recipe was Ming Tsai’s “Grilled stuffed Calamari Sushi with Black Bean Aioli” from foodnetwork.com. If anyone wants to know what appetizer to bring to a Korean dinner party and really want to wow the host, go for this recipe. Also, the taste is smooth enough that anyone who can eat squid will love this dish. Bon appetit!